--- product_id: 2154743 title: "Why Women Have Sex: Women Reveal the Truth About Their Sex Lives, from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between)" brand: "cindy m. mestondavid m. buss" price: "VT9123" currency: VUV in_stock: true reviews_count: 10 url: https://www.desertcart.vu/products/2154743-why-women-have-sex-women-reveal-the-truth-about-their store_origin: VU region: Vanuatu --- # Why Women Have Sex: Women Reveal the Truth About Their Sex Lives, from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between) **Brand:** cindy m. mestondavid m. buss **Price:** VT9123 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Why Women Have Sex: Women Reveal the Truth About Their Sex Lives, from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between) by cindy m. mestondavid m. buss - **How much does it cost?** VT9123 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.vu](https://www.desertcart.vu/products/2154743-why-women-have-sex-women-reveal-the-truth-about-their) ## Best For - cindy m. mestondavid m. buss enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted cindy m. mestondavid m. buss brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Why Women Have Sex: Women Reveal the Truth About Their Sex Lives, from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between) ## Images ![Why Women Have Sex: Women Reveal the Truth About Their Sex Lives, from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between) - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71beqXNk0QL.jpg) ![Why Women Have Sex: Women Reveal the Truth About Their Sex Lives, from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between) - Image 2](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/81w6IrUTQpL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars The Latest Survey on Sex *by J***D on Reviewed in the United States on November 11, 2009* This "never-before-reported study of why women have sex was conducted online between June 2006 and April 2009.....The survey began by asking the women if they had ever had sex for one of the 237 reasons we identified in our original study." The study involved 1,006 women from a variety of backgrounds. "The basic biochemistry of attraction is the number one reason women give for why they have sex." Women unconsciously utilize two types of evolutionary instincts to seek out and find their mates--they are "Genetic benefits" that "are the high-quality genes that can endow a woman's children with a better ability to survive and reproduce." "'Resource benefits,' are the second type that include food, shelter from the hostile forces of nature, and physical protection from aggressive men, help a woman and her children survive and thrive." This is a fascinating non-fiction book. It's full of information that most readers will never have even imagined. One of the book's first examples of this is "the scent of sexiness." Women's sense of smell enables them to help select their best possible mates by the odor of the males "pheromones." A male's scent enables women to identify good hygiene and clues to the male's immune system and body symmetry and whether mating with them will produce superior offspring. That's only a tiny sample of the fascinating information supplied by this book. What will surprise many readers is many of the secondary 236 reason's women have sex. This book also seems to prove that sex can greatly relieve stress and also cure many of women's headaches. Surprise, surprise-the fact seems exactly opposite of the public's beliefs. Women also have sex to gain or regain self-respect, to gain status, to be popular, to attract a mate and sometimes just because she wants to find out "what all the fuss is about." Loneliness, revenge, charity, to protect their partner from other predatory women, and simple boredom are also important reasons. This book should be required reading for women because of the insights it provides them into human sexuality and motivation, but it's also fascinating information for males. Once a man understands the information in this book he will become a much more successful sexual partner with much happier partner(s). The book includes excellent notes, sources and a good index. Somewhat surprising to this reviewer, the book is definitely a page-turner. It's excellent. This book will also help readers of another recently published book by Eve Kingsley that I can't name unless I don't want this review published. It is listed on the Amazon listing for this book as a possible combination purchase as well as separately. The Kingsley book is also fascinating, but this book helps explains the thought processes behind its subject matter. I'd suggest the reader refer to my review of the Kingsley tome, but Amazon, or it's computer programs(?) doesn't seem to allow any reader reviews of it to be published? ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ 4.0 out of 5 stars Interesting, thought provoking *by G***E on Reviewed in the United States on November 4, 2009* Very interesting book, in part because of the references. It covers a lot of ground, and mentions a number of studies, so that if you run across one that is of particular interest, you can go find it. That way you don't get bogged down reading about the areas that are not of much interest. Much of it may be things you've already thought about, but there are sure to be some "motive" that haven't crossed your mind, and when you read those, it will make you think, "Oh, yeah, that's why she did that." Of course, I'm reading from a male point of view- women may see it differently. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars An Important Question *by A***E on Reviewed in the United States on April 22, 2010* This book makes two important contributions. First, is the title. Dr Meston does not confuse love and sex, although emotional reasons (love and commitment) ranked high in the original study. Second, a man can identify with many of the same reasons!With the evolutionary psychology input, the book stays within the procreation/pleasure paradigm, yet includes reasons like, "wanting to get close to God": a small percentage. The Sacred Female Had this book been written by Dr. Buss alone, I would have given it the same credence I gave Gray's "Men are from Mars": zero. Dr. Meston, perhaps subconsciously, brings a feminine balance and authority beyond the numbers.It is important to note two things while reading: 1. The original study was conducted using college age students as a base line and 2. The study was expanded to the general public with small response, yet expanding the age range. The book is only as definitive as the population studied and there are many cultural variations in reasoning.I would strongly recommend this book for women who ask, "Am I the only one who feels this way?" And for men who ask, "What the hell is going on with her?" Whatever your motivation for purchasing this title, you will find the book smooth to read and fascinating! --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.vu/products/2154743-why-women-have-sex-women-reveal-the-truth-about-their](https://www.desertcart.vu/products/2154743-why-women-have-sex-women-reveal-the-truth-about-their) --- *Product available on Desertcart Vanuatu* *Store origin: VU* *Last updated: 2026-05-11*