--- product_id: 5808856 title: "Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission" brand: "william bramegloria bramejon jacobs" price: "VT11861" currency: VUV in_stock: true reviews_count: 9 url: https://www.desertcart.vu/products/5808856-different-loving-the-world-of-sexual-dominance-and-submission store_origin: VU region: Vanuatu --- # Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission **Brand:** william bramegloria bramejon jacobs **Price:** VT11861 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by william bramegloria bramejon jacobs - **How much does it cost?** VT11861 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.vu](https://www.desertcart.vu/products/5808856-different-loving-the-world-of-sexual-dominance-and-submission) ## Best For - william bramegloria bramejon jacobs enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted william bramegloria bramejon jacobs brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission ## Images ![Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/81BrdJw2b6L.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars A must read for anyone mature adult *by J***H on Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on May 31, 2023* I bought this book for an insight into the non vanilla world. I love the author’s approach to writing about the topic. The book is a real easy ready keeping the reader interested and intrigued at the turn of every page.. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars Fascinating and necessary *by A***S on Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on March 12, 2012* "Different Loving" is sexy, but wasn't written to titillate. It's full of ideas and reflections from experienced members of the BDSM community, but it's not an instruction manual. After all, there are plenty of instruction manuals out there already (I've reviewed a few), plenty of kinky erotica to be found between the covers of books or for free on the Internet. What's harder to find is a straightforward book that, without any agenda (beyond the authors' obvious beliefs that alternative sexualities should be at least tolerated, and preferably embraced), looks into the world of BDSM and sets forth, in a descriptive and insightful manner, an account of what we do and why we do it - which is what "Different Loving" does, thoroughly and thoughtfully.Although the authors are experienced players themselves (despite the "Don't try this at home"-type opening disclaimer), their approach is journalistic and even scholarly, letting the facts speak for themselves. Although much of the book is devoted to first-person accounts, the authors never lose sight of the fact that every experience is individual and none can be considered somehow "ideal" or "typical." No matter who you are or what your own perspective is, you'll find some things here you agree with and some you disagree with vehemently - but the point here is to show, not to tell, and certainly not to persuade.Although this is a book that will appeal to sociologists and psychologists, with statistics and footnotes galore, it also proves accessible to the ordinary reader. The authors' language is straightforward, and the unobtrusively-edited interviews are full of swagger, emotion, and colorful anecdotes. I would especially recommend this book to those outside the BDSM community looking to understand "what it's all about," and to those within the community who wish to gain insight into activities that don't appeal to them personally while still falling under the general "heading" of BDSM.Although the subtitle proclaims this to be a look into "The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission," the scope of this book goes far beyond dominance and submission per se. Many of the interviewees enjoy sadomasochistic play with few or no D/s overtones. Some subjects, such as body modification and "dressing for pleasure," are explored in depth that goes far beyond their D/s connections. Some topics, such as foot fetishism, seem more generally kinky than D/s-specific, and I don't know that a chapter on transgenderism (outside the context of D/s genderplay) belongs here at all. However, I can appreciate the authors' desire to be as broad as possible in their treatment of the subject, and although I would have liked to read more about dominance and submission specifically because that's my area of particular interest, I did find the more peripheral subjects intriguing in a purely "nil humani me alienum puto" sort of way.Informative books on the BDSM world are rare, let alone books of this length and depth and breadth and readability. Whether or not you identify as kinky, if you want to come to a greater understanding of human sexuality in all its surprising variety, this book will fascinate and enlighten you. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful Overview *by V***L on Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on March 19, 2004* Personally, I am not new to the concept of D/s, but I am new to the idea that there are more, many more, people who share the same sexual/lifestyle tendancies as myself. This book is not a how-to, it is not a guide, it is more a psychological, or psychosexual if you prefer, venture that attempts to give an overview of many of the aspects of D/s and S/M. Granted, there is a lot of lumping together, and generalization, but when you are dealing with something as varied and as individual as D/s experiences and practices, it is hard to itemize every single one. On the whole I was very impressed with the book. It covered aspects of D/s that I am familar with, others that I was not, and the interviews gave voice to the individuality that the book in and of its self was not able to convey. Since I am not a veteran of D/s, I can not say whether or not such people would find the book very helpful or intriguing, but for a novice, just taking her first baby steps into the realm of alternate sexuality, it was an eye opening experience, and made huge strides towards easing my feelings of being alone, or abnormal. Even if you aren't interested in D/s specifically, but are a student of human behavior, mentality and sexuality, I would reccomend it. It is very candid and straightforward in its approach, using language that is not so highly technical to be baffling. But, at the same time, it is not written down to the reader. Again, a highly recommended read. --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.vu/products/5808856-different-loving-the-world-of-sexual-dominance-and-submission](https://www.desertcart.vu/products/5808856-different-loving-the-world-of-sexual-dominance-and-submission) --- *Product available on Desertcart Vanuatu* *Store origin: VU* *Last updated: 2026-05-08*