--- product_id: 6795774 title: "My Bonus Mom!: Taking the Step Out of Stepmom" brand: "tami butcherferas noufbill engvall" price: "VT13240" currency: VUV in_stock: true reviews_count: 6 url: https://www.desertcart.vu/products/6795774-my-bonus-mom-taking-the-step-out-of-stepmom store_origin: VU region: Vanuatu --- # My Bonus Mom!: Taking the Step Out of Stepmom **Brand:** tami butcherferas noufbill engvall **Price:** VT13240 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** My Bonus Mom!: Taking the Step Out of Stepmom by tami butcherferas noufbill engvall - **How much does it cost?** VT13240 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.vu](https://www.desertcart.vu/products/6795774-my-bonus-mom-taking-the-step-out-of-stepmom) ## Best For - tami butcherferas noufbill engvall enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted tami butcherferas noufbill engvall brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Full description not available ## Images ![My Bonus Mom!: Taking the Step Out of Stepmom - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71Sl9CLvzIL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ One of the better stepmom books - good for 5 year old *by C***Y on Reviewed in the United States on April 11, 2019* This is a great book! We purchased all the main stepmom books on amazon (there aren’t many) and this one is my favorite. It’s more than just a blended family book (which usually discuss families more generally), but it goes through the basic steps of how a child comes to have a stepmom. It was really helpful for our 5 year old because it briefly explained divorce, parents fighting, and dad moving out to a new place. For kids this is true for, they will relate to the story immediately. It also explains that the those things are not caused by the kids. And from there the story evolves into dad meeting someone new, marrying her, and her becoming a “bonus” mom. It also explains that the stepmom is not replacing mommy and that mommy is still very important. Overall, the book does a good job to portray stepmoms in a positive light in relation to biological moms and it also provides context by way of a light divorce conversation. We honestly really liked that it made the two holiday / birthday celebration seem normal. Which happens regardless of there being a stepmom in the picture.There was someone on here that complained about the dad being portrayed negatively, and I get it. The bad cooking comment is a bit of a jab but we just skipped that line when reading it to my stepson. Other than that, it’s not very negative towards dads.I recommend this book because it provides some objective truth to kids who have or will have a stepmom. This is what happens and it’s not filled with drama. Really great book, and it rhymes! ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A Real Life Inspiring Story! A must read for parents and kids alike! *by C***S on Reviewed in the United States on September 19, 2011* I must confess up front, I do know the author. As a matter of fact, I have known the author Tami and her entire family for quite a long time. So you may count this review as biased if you must. I can bear witness to how Tami's family turned a divorce and remarriages into a wonderful, positive thing for her entire big, beautiful blended family! To this very day, you can see and feel that from everyone in her clan. This book so wonderfully hits head on how a real life, confusing, unsettling, and scary divorce can be turned into a healthy, loving environment for all. I applaud all four of her parents for the great work they did. They all can be credited with helping to raise four pretty amazing kids that I am lucky enough to know. However, simply living the experience, does not automatically write the book. Tami has done a tremendous job molding her own story into an inspiring and touching, perfectly written guide for all those faced with this situation. I was not a child of divorce, but my daughter unfortunately was . When my daughter was young, her mother remarried and it was a struggle. I wish I would have had this book available during that time. Mostly for my daughter, but for myself as well. I have come to very much like my daughter's Bonus Dad and am thankful he is a part of my daughter's life. If your children or anyone you care about, is faced with this situation...this amazing book can be a helpful tool to help the kids (and parents) through the rough waters of a split up or a new person coming into their lives! Bravo Tami! ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ LOVED it!! *by K***E on Reviewed in the United States on August 10, 2013* I bought this book for my husband to read to my future stepson, who is five. He seems to have some loyalty conflicts and he is often confused as to what my role as stepmom is. This book is best read by the child's father, or even their mother (wishful thinking on my part, I guess), since it starts out addressing deeper issues like the parents fighting, telling the kids they are divorcing, and dad moving to a new house. But then it says how every other weekend they went to dad's, they got to have two of each holiday and birthday, and it was great. It explains how they felt when dad met someone new and that their mom even liked her. When the dad married the new woman, the kids said how no one can replace mom, but the new woman is a *bonus*, and is simply another person to love them. I think it appropriately explains what a stepmom is to children between the ages 4-7. When my fiance read this book to his five year old, you could see him thinking and making connections during certain parts of the book. I am very very happy and grateful I made this purchase!! --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.vu/products/6795774-my-bonus-mom-taking-the-step-out-of-stepmom](https://www.desertcart.vu/products/6795774-my-bonus-mom-taking-the-step-out-of-stepmom) --- *Product available on Desertcart Vanuatu* *Store origin: VU* *Last updated: 2026-05-04*