So Your Husband Wants A Dominant Wife: From Husband & Wife To Mistress & Maid

This is one of the few books I've read that fits closely with my FLR/WLM fantasy, to a point. And that point is where the cruelty starts. The verbal humiliation and degradation were erotically bearable, but as they progressed further along into more physical cruelty of the soaked diapers, stress positions, the rubber maid's suits and the sweating for hours, the less erotic it was, and the more just painful it became.It felt like I was reading an account by a female author, coming across very personal and intimate, and that was arousing. She uses David's indiscretion to force his submission, or divorce. He has been married and smitten for a long time, but even with all those years he can't reveal his deepest fantasies, and so there is an unfilled hole in his life. She was clueless, but is a quick study. She listens and, because she loves him, agrees to be his Lady of the House, the wife in charge. She takes to the role rather quickly, and with protections in place, begins to establish her control. She uses the usual types of control, chores and high standards, dress, submission to her, punishments. She seems to take to the role quickly, especially to the punishments. She is also very creative with all aspects of dominating David. David is one of those types that wants to experience the reality, the pain, and being broken. Domination and subjugation grow respectively; David's subjugation grows more intense as her domination becomes more fulfilling erotically. David doesn't see any dangers. His wife loves him so she will protect their marriage and love. But that becomes less clear as they go deeper into the unknown.Of course, this is all consensual, so David can call a halt anytime if it all becomes too intense, but at the threat that they would return to their vanilla life. No. David was deeply hooked, and blind to the dangers of deepening submission; his ability to think rationally disappearing, smothered by his consuming arousal.Her own ability to think rationally is being subsumed by her growing arousal at David's subjugation which she is responsible for. So she is drawn to going further and further. She rationalizes her increasing cruelty as doing it for David. She convinces David that what she does to him is simply logical.In some settings, some relationships, cuckolding can be quite fulfilling for all concerned, but that is tough, and David was not a voluntary cuckold. She had taken his masculinity and he couldn't really get it up. She found "real men" to fulfill her and humiliate David. In the end, David doesn't fare well.As I said, I liked the book. It kept me intrigued and gave good warnings to be aware of. But the cruelty towards the end was more just abuse. Let's remember though, this is a story, a fantasy. So it can go where it pleases. Do what it wants.Also, this is one book where the editor seemed to take their editing seriously. There are few errors, very few spelling errors, and no misplacing names of characters. This makes a book eminently more readable.

This story is much more erotic than an 'ACME' self-castration kit , and yet that neutralizing word "Consent" makes this not a crime of passion, but an emasculation of tsunamic subzspace.Intense, arousing, shameful, and somehow humiliatingly pleasurable. The 'X' chromosome is his brand while FiFi disregards his 'Y' by a deeper intomacy with the other two X's in 'her' life FiFis wife.

The first few pages started out great. On page 13 it was revealed how inept their marital communication was and earlier we learned they had been married for 22 years.Suspension of Disbelief :GONE. Even a couple with great communication and lots of love will find it difficult to survive a FLR the author has in mind. This is just a fantasy right? RIGHT?I first spotted any mention of her love on page 26.When a wife takes her husband's sexual desires and needs into her care and control no matter how difficult that makes his life it proves the love that she has for him. When she becomes the Mistress of his fantasies and dreams and he becomes the most servile of maids one must hope and pray that she finds the joy and pleasure and satisfaction and fulfillment that his dedication and service, his obedience and suffering can bring into her life. His worship and adoration becomes evidence of his love for her.There are so many truths here that apply to my life that I can not help but wonder just how widely { if not universally} they apply to submissive males. Surely they apply to all Sissy Maid Slaves.Yet as I read on and the life described for this sissy maid slave becomes ever more increasingly hard and difficult, I find it amazing how the will to submit somehow manages to increase in response. On page 32 with almost a hundred pages yet to go and some peeks ahead {and 4 more books by this author yet to read} [this author joins the elite authors I will buy on name sighting alone]. I realize I must not just read, read, read but must make progress as well in my own life. How strange and surprising it seems to say this author along with a very few others in this specialized Femdom subject matter area does indeed offer inspiration to this would be sissy maid slave as well as to all those potential sissy maids out there where ever they may be. I can only hope that as many women find a similar inspiration to become a Great Mistress with their own sissy maid slave. Now if I could just figure out a way to put this book down.Part three was particularly heavily underlined in red ink that I will have to reread it before putting it in an honored place on my shelves.5* easy A Great Gift for the Wife perhaps with a well thought out spoken presentation.

This is a short review but I found it to be a riveting page turner. Most refreshingly it is written from the Dom and not third person.

I found this to be a very good read as I myself am a submissive.The one thing that gave me some doubts was the end ! Neither of us heard fifi say goodnight.How would you know unless you actually heard it said.

User 24. Disappointing ! It s just another instruction Manual , of how to humiliate and punish submissives males. Theres not much tension in it. it just describes a process , often read before. I was rather expecting several different sessions , describing clearly by words / conversation and or rough action how the female(s) would have carried out their " cruel deads ", and the desperate situation of the poor victim.Advise to the writer : suggest you seek assistance with Writers like Rebecca Sterne or Lady Alexa.