Nice Guys And Players: Becoming The Man Women Want

This book kind of reinforces what I thought but couldn't fully believe. I am lacking when it comes to the interactions and outcomes I want with women. Rather than just explaining why I am lacking, this book also gives actionable advice to remedy that.

Rom is an authentic brilliant guy who gets it, and shares practical common sense advice from personal experience and circumstances.Well written book.

Rom Wills has written a great book not just on understanding the dating marketplace, but how to become a REAL MAN.

Peace and Greetings. A few years ago I consulted an amazing Spiritual Advisor regarding my Life Purpose. She assisted me in realizing a very meaningful calling. I was thoroughly please and satisfied with her work. I was inspired so much by the consultation that I began to look her up online to learn more about her. Amongst many wonderful findings about the advisor, I found her husband Rom Wills (the author of Nice Guys and Players) had wrote a book on male and female relations. Years later I felt moved to order this small book and see what he had to say. I just finished the book tonight and I have to say that this is a rare jewel. It is easily digestible yet thoroughly profound. Throughout the entire book I felt like the author felt me and had a genuine over-standing of what it doesn't mean and means to be a real man. He was 100% raw the entire book and laid out a clear blueprint for aspiring men to process. As a black boy growing up in a white dominated society I was programmed to repress my manhood so as not to be a threat to my alien Controllers. I feel like now, if I can be a real man for myself, for the women in my life, for the children, for the village, that I will heal a wound deep in my soul. I feel like through claiming my manhood I will finally be aligned with my Self and God. And this is what it is all about for me: Liberation of the Spirit. I am tenderly grateful for the compassion and love this brother has shared with me. I highly recommend his book to everyone willing to dream of Manhood for self. Peace and Blessings.

I am very glad I read this book as a lot of the manosphere today is about manipulation and getting back at women whereas rom talks about self improving and changing your mindset and view of yourself and women. I would Definately suggest giving this a read much bless

Manee, listen. It’s not over 300 pages because if it were then I guarantee the extra pages would’ve been necessary. What do I mean? This book is literally straight to the point, every page is necessary, unlike other books that have extra pages without anything meaningful. This book is most definitely informative, inspirational, and filled with endless wisdom that can change a mans life, maybe even a woman. Although it says 5 Stars, I’ll add the extra 5 here 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

This book is but the first in your reeducation of today's dating market. Its hard , honest brutal truth. If I had this book 15 years ago, I would probably be a hardcore playa right now. This is the first book on your journey into the world of dating. Read this at least twice. Its a short and valuable book. Even if your not of African-American origin, you need to read this book. It will help you in understanding yourself and women mating selection in their prime years (18-35).All of this authors books are valuable and educational. They build on each other. This is the first step into your new view on women and dating. Your truthful view on women and dating . BUY THIS BOOK.

Rom is calling men to a higher level of life by becoming a REAL MAN! The book offers helpful insights into female nature, but more importantly the book details the areas a man should focus on in his overall personal development. The book is a quick read that will sharpen and challenge any man to develop himself as a whole.

The secret is simple, "women choose the men," writes relationship expert and men's coach Rom Wills. Women choose a man based on their particular needs, therefore it is important that men understand these needs to attract the woman he desires.Nice Guys and Players: Becoming The Man Women Want by Rom Wills is an excellent book based on the personal experiences and observations of the American author who has had conversations with over a thousand women and countless men "from the biggest nerd to prolific womanizers" on the dynamic of male-female relationships. The book is refreshing read as it is written from a straight talking male perspective. The writing style is direct and informative. The author draws upon his own experiences and research to investigate why some men are very successful with women and why others do not receive any play.This easy to read guide provides straightforward advice for men on how to attract beautiful women, the attractive traits which women seek in men, and some guidance to help men understand women. The African-American author touches on the importance of self-development, practising sexual discipline, providing security to women, and being good in bed. According to the author, there are two rules to sexual satisfy a woman; first the woman must be aroused by the man, and second the woman must be comfortable with the man. Rom informs men about the importance of fulfilling a woman's physical and mental arousal needs, as most women don't orgasm regularly due to unfulfilled arousal. He also emphasises making a woman feel sexually comfortable and feel good about herself."Women chose men and there are select and non-select groups of men," writes Rom. According to the acclaimed dating coach, men fall into one of four categories; The Mr. Goodbar, The Masked Man, Nice Guy, and The Gamesman. Each category appeals to different needs in women. The author mentions another category which all men should aspire to be; The Real Man, a gentleman that satisfies all the needs of a woman, whether it is her physical or emotional needs.Generally speaking, Mr. Goodbar and The Gamesman typically fulfil a woman's physical needs, whilst The Masked Man and Nice Guy typically fulfil a woman's emotional needs. In contrast, The Real Man fulfils both a woman's physical and emotional needs, says the author who helps men look for fulfilling relationships and the women who love them. The book is written for men to learn the secret to attract beautiful women and learn the methods to generate sexual chemistry.The author also disusses some of the issues with men of these four categories. The Nice Guy is a sucker who often gets mistreated by women. The Masked Man is emotionally damaged and relies on his success and wealth to attract women. The Gamesman has trust issues and doesn't want to commit due to bad experiences with women. Mr. Goodbar is a seasoned player with multiple women but he lacks sexual discipline and he can't get the woman he really wants. The book highlights how these different categories of men can overcome their challenges and become a Real Man.Some key takeaways for men, "Don't put women on the pedestal of perfection," "Don't look at her as an object to be possessed," "A man must like women (not just for sex," and "Every man must acknowledge the presence of a higher power. A man must realize by intentionally causing pain or engaging in unethical conduct he is going against God."The book also touches on sexual ethics and advises men not to lie to women to sleep with them. "This type of transgression will cause a man to lose out on many blessings" he writes. Men should aspire to be a righteous, Real Man who has the positive traits of the four categories which he uses to positively enhance his life, his woman, and his community.A highly recommended read for men on women, dating and relationships. The author provides great advice. Women may also find this unapologetic book very helpful to understand the way men think about women and relationships.

I used to be a 'pick-up' guy and was getting no serious play whatsoever but then I decided to drop all the tactics and just be more honest with women about what I was thinking and what I wanted in relation to them and in general and that changed the game for me.It nearly drove me crazy trying to figure out why the different approach was so much more effective because it was so sudden and the difference in how the women responded so dramatic - I really had some wacky theories about it.I am grateful for this book because it clarified to me what are the underpinning principles that led to that change in how women viewed and reacted to me.Given it is only my first read of the book I will probably learn more upon re-reading and more intense study of it, which I think is worth my time to do because despite the name of the book, it touches on practically every major area of a man's life - not just women.I've read only 2 of Rom's books so far and both have already made a big positive difference in how I perceive the world.I read this book on kindle and there is probably more highlighted than non-highlighted sentences in my copy at this point (no exaggeration) because of how much knowledge it is packed with in every chapter.All-round excellent book.

This book is a game changer.Nice guys will read this book because they're wannabe players. They have no game and they desperately want some.Players will read this book when endless chasing becomes meaningless and they want something deeper. They want the games to end.Rom Wills discusses another type of brother in this book that is the best of both worlds, but you'll just have to read it to find out who that is!A fantastic read.

Great book, short and to the point, keeps everything simple. Rom gives a very real perspective into how women view men and how to improve your love life. This is not a typical pickup book, nor is it a quick fix, it is for men that are prepared to do the work to build themselves into more attractive men. Although things are kept simple there really is a lot of depth as well as hidden gems in this book and it is definitely a book you can read and refer back to again and again as you progress and you'll get more out of it each time as your perspective broadens. Another thing about this book is that everything wrote in it is from personal experience, that means no pseudo science or untested theory. Overall a great guidebook to how to become a highly desirable man if you are prepared to do your part and put in the effort. Also it should be noted that if you have any questions about any concepts in this book you can actually email the author and he does reply to emails within a day if not a few hours

I've read bits on how to improve yourself to get women on the internet, but hands down, books are essential to not just get women but also improve on better relationships and gear yourself as a better man. I've had trouble seeking relationships due to my height. Although I have been going to the gym and dressed better but I needed to develop myself mentally, and that can be a lifetime to do that. This book has given me the essentials to look deep in myself and improve that I could have think of but don't know where to start. I've been watching Rom Wills for about a few years or so, then I've decided to read this book (and sexual chemistry) to better understand deeper relationships of myself and the women around my circle.