Forgiving A Good Man: An abuse survivor's story of freedom through forgiveness

An incredible book that everyone should consider reading. The power of forgiveness can change lives, and Mark's story is evidence of that. If you struggle with the idea of forgiving things form the past, you should absolutely read this book.

Yes, this book is an amazing story about a man who grew up in unimaginable conditions and how he was able to find forgiveness so that his past did not define his present or future. However, this book is much more. Mark Goodman shares that each of us can choose how we process life circumstances. We can choose to let those who have harmed us ruin our day or destroy the rest of our life. Alternatively, we can make the decision that if we want to live a happy and fulfilled life, it is in our own best interest to forgive those who did us wrong so we can move forward. Forgiving them may not be easy; however, it is required if one does not want them to control one’s life. This book highlights Mark’s personal story of how forgiveness enabled him to live a successful and meaningful life. The book also illustrates the tragic and painful results when one chooses not to forgive. Mark’s story is an extreme example almost none of us will experience. However, Mark outlines why it’s important that we learn to forgive others for the big injustices, as well as minor transgressions, if we want to take control of ourselves.

I know few people who have experienced more unprovoked abuse than Mark has. The fact the he has so triumphantly overcome the many tragedies he’s suffered is truly remarkable! I have already given away several copies of this book and have a stash ready for whenever I encounter people who need to read this powerful story.

Mark has taken a life filed with early experiences that could have made him angry, bitter and full of resentment and turned it into a life full of positivity and hope for all no matter what has happened in their past. This book will encourage anyone who is not sure whether or not forgive someone for something from their past to do so. There is power and hope in forgiveness. Great book.

While I new some part of Mark Goodman's story I didn't know all that he found freedom through as he lived out the practice of forgiveness. It's one thing to say "I forgive you," it's another to express it through actions and deeds. It's truly a story of freedom.A must read for anyone struggling with the seed of unforgiveness in their life.

It's not often that someone shares such raw, shocking memories with the sole purpose of making a difference in the world.Too often I come across people who are stuck in anger, denial, and pain because they can't forgive. Will Mark's book help you forgive those who hurt you the most? I hope so, but it's worth it just to read his compelling testimony and argument for forgiveness and how it can transform your life. Forgiving others is never easy, but the fact is this: we've all been hurt, and because of that we all need to forgive. Read Mark's book, and then forgive someone, even if that someone is yourself . . . .

Mark does an incredible job of not only sharing a heartbreaking story in the most vulnerable way, but gives us the "how" to experience the freedom of forgiving those that hurt us! Once I started reading, it was hard to put it down until I finished.

Mark's story is riveting, and it makes his journey into and through forgiveness even more amazing. My immediate reaction was, "If he can forgive all of that, then surely I can forgive the offenses against me." And the guidance in this book would be at least a great start for anyone who knows they need to forgive and likely also for those of us who didn't know they did until they read this book.

Mark shares his powerful and life-transforming journey with honesty and clarity. His true spirit shines through the trauma and abuse and it's inspiring to read his willingness to find forgiveness despite what he and his three brothers experienced growing up.He reflects on the impact of shame, different qualities of forgiveness, sums up the wisdon from each chapter, as well as outlines the Key Turning Points that happened in his life - all of which will help to support you in your own journey of forgiveness.Whether you have a similar story, or you're simply curious to learn how someone is able to move on from trauma in their past, this book can light your path toward healing.