Game Over: From Pick-Up Artist to Social Heartist Paperback – December 24, 2015

This book will liberate so many men from being stuck in trying to get laid. It opened my eyes on how I look at the world. It's not only incredibly well and understandable written (as my mothers language is not english), it's also a paradigm that goes far beyond "dating" itself. John Cooper offers a way of being (Social Heartistry) that won't only make you amazing with women but also an overall better human being. The book shows off how men (and the current dating industry) is stuck in "trying to take" from women. This creates a fear, awkwardness, shame. The fear of talking to women that currently exists in our society. John Cooper changes this forever and shows in a crystal clear way how to liberate yourself from this fear. This book changed my life already. It leads into amazing, meaningful connections with women, fulfilling sex and just effortless interactions. 5 stars from my side. It's the best, and most liberating book about dating I've ever read!

Life-changing book. The learnings from this book helped me be more playful in social situations, accept parts of myself and overcome a lot of insecurities I once had (through inner child healing, taught in the book). The way I move through the world, even buying groceries from the supermarket, has changed. What was once difficult and a struggle (e.g. talking to people on the street, building connections in a fun way) is now easy and exciting for me. My enjoyment in life has significantly increased after reading this book and applying everything. John is a legit guy and this new paradigm has changed the way I see the world.

Johns philosophy is very simple yet extraordinary. This book is a true gem that will help bring great change from within which will create amazing life situations for you. You can also apply these teachings not to just dating but also, business, friendships, and every other aspect of your life

I've been following John Cooper for months now and luckily for me, he came into my life at a very crucial junction. I had just been released from prison, I was feeling shameful, and there was a lot of self-doubt in my life.John never said he would make it better. He never promised anything, but he always guided me in a direction that he knew would help me. Most importantly, he took the time to offer advice and support, which not only showed his personality, but his devoted passion to the men and women he works with.This book, along with everything John espouses, isn't just about getting women. It isn't even about women / opposite gender at all. It's mostly about finding out the core truths for YOU and learning how to overcome your own obstacles so that you can connect better with others on a deeper level. Whether romantic or not, love, compassion, and empathy are hallmarks of John Cooper's books and his life.

I really enjoyed this book. I will be honest though, you need to be in the right place to read it.I am glad that I was, when I bought it.Its like opening your mind to the matrix again. The first time would be realizing that you can attract women (in my case) and feeling amazing because of it.This book is about shifting your underlying beleifs of why you "need" women. Or why you must go up and "approach" "pickup" "get" "acquire" them. Do you see the common connection all those words have? It comes from a "taking" mindset. You need them, to feel good- to feel alive- to feel worth something in this world of fast-cars, quick thrills, and no time to genuinely connect with another human-being. Only to get into her pants as quickly as possible.As I had said above you need to be in the right place to do this. What do I mean by the "right place?" Well for me I did all that above. I got lots of success with women. But that was it. It was wham-bam-thank you-mam. Nobody wanted to see me again after. Because I didn't genuinely connect with them I suspect. Also you have to truly realize as I did, that as a man- you are inherently attractive. The Pickup community doesn't show you anything or teach you anything that you dont already know as a man.I gave it four stars because it lacks things you can do to overcome the "taking" mindset and change to a "giving" one.

I'm sure, that not everyone will understand this book, but for every one who are aware of Pickup society it may be eye opening book.For me it was missing link between books about spirituality and relationships/getting to know new people. I would say, it's one of the best book about spirituality for guys looking for happy relationships.Thank you John for effort to create the book, as well as other products. It's very valuable gift for nowadays society lost in bad information, and neediness.

Ideas are very great. Presentation not so much. Book requires professional editing, a lot of is rehearsed and rehearsed. I come from spiritual background, but I'm still very racional, I never understand people who mix spirituality with science. It's completly different spheres, linking them together makes bulls***. Game over is full of pseudo science linked with spiritual concepts and dating, all of that makes book much more untrustable. For example, John is discribing left and right hemospheres of the brain as female-male brain sides, which is just not true. No neurologists would claim that, it's very outdate understanding of human brains. Plus, he compares brain side, with taoists yin-yang simbol, which the most stereotipical thing you can do. Then, he vaguely puts everything together linking ying-yang, taking-giving, feminem- masculine creating some twisted understanding of taoism and tantra. However there are a number of quates from neurologistcs and other scientist in the book, but given the vague book theme, it's harder at any quate with credibility.All in all, great ideas, just not very wisely presented.

This is a banger of a book. John’s revolutionary philosophy and mindset completely blows the old style dating strategies out the window . Coming completely from the heart , this book has everything along the way , detailing how John lost his way after initially being very good with ladies and suddenly through learning the old style ‘game’ becoming terrible. But bounces back by being his true authentic self and mastering the art of of unconditional giving . It also has some funny stories that we all can relate to in his journey along with tips and exercises to help master what he is teaching . By the end of the book , it will all make total sense where you may have gone wrong not just with women , but with life itself .Highly recommend this book it’s a must read.Damien

This is exactly what I needed. As I felt going downwards because of being too immersed into Game, I knew something was off. This constant anxiety. This pressure in my chest. From my spiritual experience, I knew deep down inside that I was only amplifying lack when doing excessive game. But this world is full of abundance! And broken hearts can be healed even if I still have a long journey ahead of me.I thank John from the bottom of my heart for transcending Game and combining it with spiritual practice!

Before I found this BOOK.I've been living in fear most of life..and girls terrified me.I've been a pickup junkie for many, many, years. buying courses, books but nothing helped! I stayed in my comfortzone and evertime I looked at girls I froze and couldn't move..I kept blaming And punishing myself for not talking to girls every day!It was a war zone in my mind. that drained me mentally & physically.But after reading GAME OVER! I felt the guilt, shame, anxiety and fear slowly fade away that I've been carrying within me for all these years..Before the book I was afraid to say hi and give a compliment.And after the book I started to have more fun. and letting go off the outcome..That made me more attractive.And now I'm experiencing more freedom everyday! And learned to invite girls into my life instead of chasing after them...He explains everything you need to break free from the pickup trap. and shift into your authentic self. To become the artist and creator of your own life!I'm very grateful for discovering John's book! It changed my life completely!Thank you 🙏🏻

A great book for anyone truly interested in authentically connecting with women and the world. If you apply this information it will change your life.

It's an amazing book with quite simply puts out how getting good with yourself can do wonders for you. It's a must buy