We Are Okay

Reader I would recommend ordering the hardback version of this book even if it’s a ‘used’ copy. I ordered a ‘used’ copy which luckily turned out to be a virtually brand new book. Beautiful cover and inside jacket illustration. As we come to increasingly embrace the convenience of kindle, sometimes it’s a real treat to be reminded how a beautifully designed hardback such as Nina LaCour’s ‘We Are Okay’ can in itself be a thing of beauty we are able to hold.This is the third novel I’ve read by Nina LaCour and all have been read virtually back to back. Why? Because her writing is just so wonderfully captivating as illustrated by the following sentence “I wonder if there’s a secret current that connects people who have lost something. Not in the way that everyone loses something, but in the way that undoes your life, undoes your self, so that when you look at your face it isn’t yours anymore”. Central theme of the book revolves around the main character Marin coping with bereavement and loss, finding and losing her first love and ultimately finding herself.Present tense setting of this novel occurs over a few days leading up to Christmas Eve making this the ideal reading choice for the festive break. Really loved the literary reference to Bronte’s Jane Eyre. The mad wife in the attic linked up to the grandfather character’s own possible mental state following his own experiences of bereavement. Five ❄️ ❄️❄️❄️❄️

There’s a quiet majesty to this book. It’s soft. It’s gentle. But it roars with deep emotion.”We were innocent enough to think that our lives were what we thought they were, that if we pieced all of the facts about ourselves together they’d form an image that made sense - that looked like us when we looked in the mirror, that looked like our living rooms and our kitchens and the people who raised us - instead of revealing all the things we didn’t know.”The story follows Marin who’s dealing with unimaginable grief and loneliness. She was orphaned as a young child; a tragic surfing accident claiming the life of her mother and her father was unknown... and now, just before leaving for university she loses her grandfather...The story flip flops between then... the summer months before she left everything behind, before her grandfather died... and now, during winter break when her only friend Mabel is visiting her in her apparent self-inflicted enforced solitude... Marin’s sadness is overwhelming. It’s palpable in this novel and is almost its own character as it drives all of Marin’s thoughts and actions.‘We Are Okay’ is a short book. But it says so much in its few pages. Plot wise the story is captivating because as a reader it’s utterly compelling to discover what it is that exactly happened in the summer to make Marin leave everything behind... but the more important aspect of the book is Marin’s acceptance of who she is and what her life means. That in her loneliness and solitude she is still loved. She is still enough. That her sadness doesn’t define her. That she will learn to live with it. To cope. That she will be okay.It’s just a beautiful read. A deeply moving story and one that will touch any heart that knows what it is to lose someone they loved and to stare into the dark void that is grief. And the delicate romance that is sprinkled throughout makes it even more bittersweet.There isn’t one thing I would change about this novel. I loved everything. The language, the pace, the style, the emotion, the characters, the story... everything. It touched my heart so completely.A perfect book.

“The truth was unconfined, unadorned. There was no poetic language to it, no yellow butterflies, no epic floods. There wasn't a town trapped underwater or generations of men with the same name destined to make the same mistakes. The truth was vast enough to drown in.”I’m struggling to decide how to describe what this book is about, in fear of not doing it justice. I suppose it is a book about grief, loneliness and relationships. I think that’s all you really need to know going in as too much would be too much. For me, this book resembles a fine wine, it deserves to be sipped and savoured, not rushed or disturbed. So enjoy the taste without too many preconceptions or distractions. My review will not linger on any specifics, but I hope to convey why I loved reading it the best I can without going in to too much detail.Firstly, I just wanted to address how beautiful the cover art for this book is. For some reason, the artwork really speaks to me, I notice different details each time I look at it and I think it captures the whole story so perfectly. I love the illustrated cover artworks the most so this is most likely why I am drawn to it. I would honestly frame this on my wall if I had a print of this. I appreciate the cover art has little to do with the writing inside so I will swiftly move on, I just wanted to address it for anyone who cares about pretty-looking books!I have never read any of Nina LaCour’s books before but found myself instantly clicking with her writing style. I cannot describe exactly what it is that made it feel right because the writing is mostly very simple and there wasn’t anything particularly unusual about it. But she told the story so beautifully. I liked that it was less than 300 pages because nothing felt too dragged out or unnecessary. Everything that was included felt crucial to the story and this was so nice to read. I liked how the story flicked between past and present, I thought this was handled really well. I’m often sceptical when writers do this as it is often unnecessary or just plain confusing. But I loved how LaCour created two distinctive tones between the two time periods and two places. The transition between the two felt very effortless but the contrast was very effective. In particular, I felt a real sense of warmness reading the chapters set in the past and a sense of coldness whilst reading the chapters set in the present. I thought this set up the contrasting tones perfectly.In the acknowledgements, LaCour addresses how this story emerged from her own grandfather’s death. This experience with grief felt very clear whilst reading the novel. I’m sure anyone whose ever lost a loved one can relate to Marin’s thoughts, emotions and actions. LaCour describes grief so beautifully and organically and I loved reading every word. Not only this, but I felt a really genuine representation of what it is to feel lonely and isolated. Somehow the snowy setting amplified all these feelings with a real sense of emptiness. And yet, despite all these themes, it never felt overly dark or depressing at all. All the way through you can feel a glimmer of hope and the chapters set in the past help to balance out darkness with splashes of sunlight.I also really appreciated the literary and art references. They felt careful and deliberate at opposed to thrown into the mix. The liked how the artworks mentioned tied in with the themes in the story. This seems like a pretty obvious thing to say, but this isn’t always managed so well in every novel. It actually made me want to look up the artworks and literature mentioned as I’m sure those who are familiar with these pieces can probably take away something deeper beneath the surface-level. Although, as someone who wasn’t familiar with many of these references, I still appreciated why they were there and what they were portraying. They certainly made the writing feel more literary and deepened the themes that were already established.I loved how LaCour represented all sorts of relationships throughout the book. The story is focused on grandparents, parents and young adults. I think for this reason, it’s a novel that would appeal to many ages, especially as the themes are so universal to every stage of life. I liked the dynamic relationships between the characters and found this was more important than the plot—which I loved. I’ve always preferred character-driven novels over plot-driven novels and this one is certainly character-focused. Having said this, the plot was structured really well with a surprising climax. There’s usually something that niggles me about a book, but I really can’t fault anything in this one. The whole book felt so perfectly crafted, from the cover design to the final sentence.Overall, I thought this book was just so beautiful. Although this is technically a young adult novel, I’m somewhat glad I didn’t read this as a teenager. I’m sure I would have still enjoyed it, but the themes feel a lot more mature. There’s nothing particularly adult in the content that would be inappropriate for younger readers, I just think it’s one of those books you could return to throughout your life and appreciate different things each time. For this reason, it’s definitely one I want to reread in the future.